Gods message to me to paint coconut

I need some help with my dream. I dreamed that I lived in a colt and they will find you a spouse and once they match you with who they want, you then marry & leave.

The people you're there with grow up with you, hang out, do multiple activities and etc. At the end of my dream the leader said "I will soon match you with someone great" I then said "Why would you do that, Im married and has a child with my husband back home? (my real life). Then she turned to me and said "God don't mix paint with coconut"?

I woke up with that message. I was told coconut meant a gift or money but help..my spouse is mixed ? what