The relationship between representatives of the zodiac signs of Virgo and Aquarius can be more or less a challenge, but if they focus on empathy and mutual understanding, it will have a future. The different attitude and needs in love are highly likely to cause problems, since the Virgo aims for achieving stability, while Aquarius values his freedom.
The Aquarius man is skilled out in public. He is a socially active personality with many friends and acquaintances, who are always buzzing around him and seeking him for a chat, advice or aid. This person is capable of discerning many things from the past, undetected by others, when he is in the present, while at the same time devising plans for the future.
He is a master of time - he understands it, predicts it and can live by the rule "here and now". Aquarius is always in the company of first-rate people, which has strong intellectual pursuits, and can often get into a humanitarian mission and give all of its attention to it. Despite this, he may seem apart from the rest of the world and a bit distant. Aquarius values long-term relationships in love, and to everyone's surprise, is illogically old-fashioned.
The Virgo woman radiates calm and reserve, especially during the first date and prefers to take on the role of an observer. In all aspects of life, she strives for security and prosperity. The Virgo woman is exceptionally analytical and uses her uncomparable observational skills to receive an accurate and realistic picture of the world around her.
In a relationship, she is genuinely devoted to her partner, unless she finds him to be unreliable. At the same time, she is not particularly fond of public displays of affection and finds them to be presumptuous and way too mushy. Her character is adaptable and she easily accepts her beloved's stated position and decisions. She can be truly loyal and is ready to give herself selflessly and completely to the man she loves.
It takes a Virgo female much time and patience in order to understand her favorite Aquarius and even more to live in harmony with him. She is happy with her role as a wife and mother and puts in great care toward her family whenever someone falls sick or has need of her gentle support. Sometimes even Aquarius himself can realize how he takes advantage of her helpful and supportive nature, but that's just who she is.
When she is in love, her devotion to the man by her is unmatched. She doesn't believe in the principle "give and you will receive, " but does something so that the ones she loves are happy. This may spoil an Aquarius man and predispose him to become more absentminded toward his family and life, which he usually does anyway.
The flaw of Virgo is that she can be overly critical toward others, including her husband and kids, convinced that what she she says is true, and for it to imperatively be true for others as well. This type of behavior may actually incite the Aquarius to become even more distanced, independent and cold toward her, leading to many new problems in their relationship.
The male sign of Aquarius is plenty talented, capable and energetic to busy himself with many projects at the same time, while simultaneously achieving good results, which appears quite impressive to the Virgo.
He can reveal to her many different, hidden nuances in life, show her that there are "other colors" in it as well and encourage her to take part in the adventure of reaching new heights, which have been conquered by no one else so far... with him by her side. The Aquarius is easily inspired by a given idea, tries to develop it and puts in all of his being, tons of enthusiasm into it and even demonstrates a child's tremendous excitement.
He may be idle for months and not find the will to work but then suddenly, one strange project may get him going - he would be ready to work night and day to make it happen. Only one thing matters: for it to intrigue him. These strange moods of his lead him to ignore his sweet from time to time. He doesn't do it on purpose, nor does he want to experience the severity of her feelings.
Aquarius simply has a curious mind by nature, which must be constantly occupied. Slowly, his preoccupation and detachment can extinguish which even the most fiery attachment, if he does not allow the Virgo woman to contribute to the sphere of his interests from time to time.
If he does not let her peek into his world, she becomes visibly suspicious and starts to lose trust in him. And when that happens, Virgo may smother her partner, taking away his needed independence - so very crucial for an Aquarius.
If love is a canvas on which the main imagery is drawn by observing the landscape environment, and imagination is used to add the detailed touches, representing the individuality of the artist, then the Virgo woman is the landscape and the Aquarius - the imagination.
This couple can attain a beautiful connection, whenever both of them let go and share their purest and deepest feelings and are not afraid to express themselves boldly. She possesses a strong sense of the practical in life, which is truly needed for the stability of any relationship, while he simply must illuminate his everyday life with dreams, making life with him carefree and captivating.
Aquarius easily breaks the ice between himself and the Virgo woman and drives her to tremble in expectation of what will happen in their relations. She, in turn, clearly shows what she wants for the future and displays her intentions with a coherent sign. Each new day for both of them may turn into an adventure filled with new excitement and impressions, for which they will be happy to have entered...
The sexuality between the Aquarius man and Virgo woman is the best aspect of their relationship, keeping them attached to each other and inseparable. The Aquarius has a peculiar attitude toward sexual pleasure and can easily compel a Virgo woman to express her sensuality. He also loves it when she speaks freely about what she wants in sex. In turn, the Virgo can awaken his primary desire more than any other woman due to her inborn charm and natural beauty. Aquarius can make her feel liked, desired and irreplaceable - something that every woman dreams of.
In their sexual intimacy, there is immense passion and spontaneity. Each of them tries to give the other that which they believe they would most like, creating a harmony that is difficult for other couples to achieve. Furthermore, the Aquarius male makes her feel such that if she were not to be sexually satisfied, he cannot be happy and satisfied himself.
One thing that may connect Aquarius and Virgo is that they are both dreamers by nature and are not afraid of the challenge of the unknown. Both have a strongly developed analytical mind, which does not prevent them from giving in to their beautiful dreams.
Aside from their magnetic sexual connection and focus on living in a more different world, there are not many other things which bring them together. In the beginning of their powerful attraction, their relationship may seem more than promising, fateful and unique, but it will not be long before many things that distinguish Virgo and Aquarius become increasingly evident.
The female Virgo will notice that Aquarius is not so caring of her and that he gradually alienates himself with the passage of time. And once the long hours, passed unnoticeably in pleasant conversation and the discovery of how many views and thoughts they have in common, are over, their contradictory natures begin to clash more and more, even for the smallest reason, and start to ruin their feelings. In this relationship, the partners must accept each other just as they are, instead of trying to change their beloved.